I’ve been on dates where I really was enjoying myself, but soon, that dreaded introvert hangover struck.I got tired, glazed-over, and snappish; my words weren’t coming out right anymore.But here are nine “secrets” about dating an introvert, based on my experiences and the experiences of introverts I interviewed for my book.1.
At least, not as eloquently as they sounded in our minds. We know it’s on us to make our preferences and needs known.
Many introverts are intensely interested in meaning. We talked all night, making fun of our drunk friends writhing on the dance floor, and he kissed me when he walked me back to my car.
When you’re dating an introvert, worry less about doing all the right things, like texting at the right time, saying the right thing, or dividing up the check properly.
If we’re ready to call it a night earlier than you are, that doesn’t necessarily mean we’re not into you.
Dating, like all social interactions, drain our limited supply of “people” energy.