In truth, with age does come experience and a certain sense of power. They are still enjoying the variations of different women.
She can feel comfortable in setting the rules and doesn't need to feel like she is not in control of the situation. If commitment is something you may be looking for, you might want to opt for an older man. Communication is still not at its optimum peak in a younger man.
And that's all about , the said power trip he is getting off on should be overt.
Unless it's just a fun, sexy, baggage-free throw-you-over-your-desk situation where nobody gets hurt at the end.5.
And by that, I don’t mean “you won’t ever have financial trouble,” rather, when you do have issues, he’ll probably be stable enough from maturity and that he won’t freak out.
Chances are he’s lived on his own for quite some time.
Instead, he’ll either throw a meal together himself because he’s gotten quite good at it, or be ridiculously happy with toasted cheese and tomato soup because it’s way, way better than the burnt hamburgers he ate for years.
However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him.
Don't forget, as teen boys, usually their fantasies were that of models, movies stars and centerfolds -- many of which were older women. Dating a younger man also makes the woman feel that she has more control of the relationship.Either they aren't yet comfortable with it or they haven't been able to tap into their resources yet.As we all know, bad communication in any relationship is a recipe for disaster. The mother figure often comes into play in this kind of relationship.Not necessarily just sexually, but myriad other ways, too: The first guy you watch with, the guy who buys you a copy of Pink Floyd's "Dark Side of The Moon," the first one in the passenger's seat as soon as you get your learner's permit...Being the older, wiser man is a power trip for him.Considering the fact that he teases me mercilessly about my abundance of gray hair, I think it’s about time I get to talk up my great youth.All kidding aside, there are some wonderful things about being married to a man who is more than a couple years older than you (let’s not forget that there is an assumption being made that along with age, a certain level of maturity has been reached!) and while this post is written with a bit of laughter, there are a few things you should remember.I don’t believe that there is any “right” age for someone to marry, nor do I believe that a girl to marry someone older than her. Whenever women talk about hitting thirty, or forty, or fifty (or any other age that causes them to have a slight crisis), you can always smile a little.A lack of sex in a marriage, however, can turn couples into buddies or quasi-roommates and make that special spark even harder to ignite.during our dating season, I realized it was coming and started giggling over it, even then.