Right appears out of nowhere, but all those suitors just want to fuck and nothing more.
Men like myself greatly enjoy the sex rewards that come with dating, but am I really going to marry the woman who slept with me on the first date and who will kiss my son with a mouth that has been gagged on by over a dozen cocks?
Dating is merely a technique for gaining sex, not relationships.
It’s a miracle invention for men who want no-strings attached fun, and I have benefited from it for over 15 years.
Mainstream culture has taught them to essentially become a detached professional negotiator who plays endless psychological games while interacting with 1,000 or more potential partners in the hopes that one will work out.
Imagine if you used this soul-crushing strategy with other areas of life.
Simply pull up a map of the world divorce rate and you’ll see a near perfect correlation of divorce with countries that permit widespread dating before marriage.
Though largely informal in exposition, citations of relevant underlying facts and hypotheses are annotated throughout.This is no surprise upon realizing that dating in the West began with 19th century prostitutes and homosexuals to later be normalized for everyone without having to prove its utility.It was never intended as a way for heterosexuals to find long-term partners, and any culture that has implemented it has suffered both lowered marriage and birth rates.Many people you know who seem happily married are not yet a success story, but since most of my readers are under 40, let’s lower the bar and define success as any stable marriage that is at least ten years in length.How many people do you know who have been happily married for at least ten years?As dating has become even more shallow thanks to apps like Tinder, most people will outright fail in finding a mate through the strategy of dating.If dating was an experimental drug intended to treat cancer, the experiment would stop halfway through because of how disastrous it is on the patient.It’s a dead-end that explains why so many Western adults in their 30’s have never had a committed monogamous relationship of even a year in length.I often get emails from both men and women who want marriage but are struggling with the dating scene.Now how many people do you know who have been married for ten years and who likely have no hope for that outcome in the next decade?Unless you are a part of a religious community, I predict that you know far more people who have absolutely nothing to show for their dozens or hundreds of dates and hookups.