Don’t even attempt to to harass them or find out what they are doing with your ex recently. Okay, I understand that you just want your ex boyfriend to come back to you as soon as possible. As you are reading this blog post, I assume that you want a long and loving relationship with him. Don’t worry about him falling in love with the new girl. This new girl is just a rebound and almost all of the rebound relationships end up in a breakup.
And if you want that instead of just wanting him back for a short while, you should make him realize that you are the best option for him. The first thing you need to do is leave your ex boyfriend alone. I know it’s a little hard to accept considering the small chance that this one does work out. And the reward for taking this small risk is getting your ex-boyfriend back for good.
Exception: There is one exception to this case and that is if you and your ex boyfriend had been dating for a very short time (like a month or two weeks).
In this case, since your relationship wasn’t very strong in the first place, he is not technically with a rebound girl.
However, if they persist, he will soon break up with her after you guys meet up.
Meeting Him It is absolutely necessary that you don’t ask him out on a date.
You will have to ask him to choose between you and the new girl.
Tell your ex that you can’t be friends with him if he chooses to be with the new girl because it’s too hard for you.
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