Still, navigating the world of online dating can definitely be tricky—what kind of message is clever, but not creepy?
What the hell are you supposed to say about yourself in your profile? The scenario: “A guy sent me a message saying that he wanted to meet up for a drink, but when I asked when he was free, he said he was ‘going out of town’ for the next two weeks and that we should schedule something after.” — Andrea, 31The problem..the solution: If you tell a girl you’re “going out of town,” she’s going to assume you’re busy dating other women.
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’” — Kristen, 27The problem..the solution: Aside from the obvious inappropriate nature of the comment to a complete stranger, men should never mention their physical characteristics or their own body parts in an introductory message.
Women are easily scared away online, so you should avoid saying anything remotely controversial or predatory.
A good rule of thumb: if you aren’t available for a date within 7 days of sending the message, don’t send it.
If nothing else, she’ll admire the fact that you took the time to “get to know” her.Part 12: How can I overcome my shyness to approach women who are checking me out?Part 13: How to approach older women Part 14: How can I overcome approach anxiety when it comes to talk to women I like?Part 3: How to approach a lady for relationship Part 4: How do I start a conversation with a girl at work?Part 5: How to approach a girl at HER work Part 6: How to approach a lady on the phone Part 7: How to approach a girl on the street and get her number Part 8: How to get a woman interested in you Part 9: How to pursue a woman without being creepy Part 10: Texting a girl for the first time Part 11: How can I get rid of my shyness and approach women?Part 15: How do I approach an attractive women in college?Part 16: How to overcome fear of rejection and approach women in clubs? Part 18: What are the odds that a girl will harshly reject me if I approach her in a public space? Part 20: How do Asian and black women like to be approached by white men?A lot of you are self-conscious about the fact that you’re on a dating site.But obviously if she’s on the site too, you’re both in the same boat.By pointing out your hesitations, she’s bound to assume you’re an insecure person. If you feel so inclined to explain yourself, wait to do it when you’ve met in person — and be confident about your reasons for joining.The scenario: “I got a message that said ‘Obviously you’re cute, but I’m just having trouble believing that this is actually you because you seem too good to be true.