A man who doesn’t pray is a man who doesn’t truly have a relationship with God.I encourage all women to seek after a guy who has a strong prayer life with the one who created him.(On the other hand, don’t weird her out by talking about marriage on the first date.) I agree.Male leadership wasn’t the result of the Fall, but of creation (as Genesis implies and Paul makes clear in 1 Timothy 2). Clean your act up today, not "when" The lie is that once you find the right girl, all your problems will go away—you just need the right motivation, right? If Jesus isn’t motivation enough to grow in maturity and pursue godliness, then you are not ready to pursue a woman. Joshua 1:8 says, “This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it.” Every man needs to realize that he will only be worth following if he follows God.He should care about others more than he cares about himself.Look at the way he treats her family and her friends.God wants to use the next years of your life to send your roots deeper into His Word, deeper into a walk with Christ.
Maybe he attends a bible class, midweek service, home group, or even a mens Bible Study.Don’t do anything with her that would cause you to be embarrassed or self-conscious if you end up being best man at her wedding.It's important that throughout your relationship, you stay close to godly people who can give you advice based on God’s Word and who love you enough to tell you the truth..when it hurts.But their presence will encourage you to focus on the conversation rather than on temptation to impurity.Guard her heart Philippians 2:3-7 says, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves.It’s very hard to move back once you’ve crossed a line—so don’t cross it in the first place.This person may end up being a lifelong friend, or married to your best friend.When you begin a relationship, a rule of thumb is, don’t do anything physically you wouldn’t do with your sister by birth.If a Christ-centered and positive relationship develops, then you might move to cautious displays of affection such as hand-holding.Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus, who..himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant.” Be very careful about physical touch I would also encourage you to read through an article I’ve written that contains Guidelines for Sexual Purity.