Opening up to Lorraine Kelly, she said: "I'm over it now.I must admit, it was a bit unlady like when I talked about my... I told [Simon] to kiss my black [behind] – that wasn't lady like."But it's okay."The bloke on #First Dates not knowing who Sinitta is - can you imagine that?! Another viewer said: "#First Dates sinitta was soooo close to saying 'you don't WHO I am?
'' Last year I had a breast cancer scare and was having a biopsy done so I missed it and this year I was excited to be clear, healthy and fearless and they did this," she said.The Channel 4 celebrity special version of First Dates for Stand Up To Cancer saw Sinitta go on a date with self-confessed music-obsessee Fred.Viewers were left cringing for Simon Cowell's friend as it became awkwardly clear that her long-haired date had no idea who she was.He is like a father figure meets brother figure and ex-lover figure to me, and of course my mentor for over three decades.'' But right now he can kiss my a**.'' Sinitta went on to claim that Cowell offered her a job for life and said she needed the distraction following last year's health scare and her recent split with her long-term partner, Jason Gale.The awkwardness grew rapidly, as it became evidently clear that Fred had never heard of the 80s pop star."I've never really been one for following pop culture", admitted Fred, to a slightly humiliated-looking Sinitta.However, the 54-year-old was surprised when her date for the evening, a self-proclaimed music-loving father had never heard of her.Nick told her: “I can’t recall any of your repertoire…'' I am single and wanted to work to get through this phase.Jason and I are still friends and care for each other but broke up in January.