I've also explianed in my profile why I am not interested in dating a woman who has children already, it may sound selfish but it is the truth." I am not interested in a relationship with somebody who has children.
It's not that I don't like them, children are wonderful and some day I may have some of my own.
Many a plans have been trashed by some real or imagined emergency and that is what you expect when there are kids involved.
The older you get,you have to realize that others have had a life while you were having yours and it may involve children.f you can accept this,than stop looking for only women without children.
Childfree adults are a minority, and this leads to unique dating issues.
One woman I interviewed for my book complained that she had difficulty meeting men who were also childfree and wanted to remain that way.
(I truly wish it wasn't this way but, it in past experiences, it always has been)Even if I do happen upon a guy without kids, he usually wants to have them at some point in the future. I've met plenty of women who don't have kids even in my thirties. I find that many women who don't have kids are real career oriented, which is why they haven't had children.
Kids are great, I have little cousins who I love to bits because they are adorable, but honestly people need to learn to wait. I didn't realize there was an age cap for being on the still "dating" scene.I'm just curious if anybody else is having this sort of problem.it seems to me as I get older, mind you I'm only pushing 30, it seems to me that it is more and more difficult to meet women who do not already have children.Most men she was meeting (in her mid 30’s) had children from prior marriages and these kids were top priority in every way.She told me about holidays spent alone and lack of money for fun times together.Not having any children of my own, I enjoy being around kids of all ages.But sometimes it's nice to be carefree and spontaneous too and with children they are the first priority(at least in my humble opinion) and their needs come first.OP I understand your strife - as it is difficult as you get older - 'cause chances are there are children involved - as well as ex's! It is natural that the older you get, the greater the percentage of people that have children.All you can do is keep pushing forward and perhaps you will find what you are seeking! If women want to have kids, the window of opportunity is limited to between puberty and early to mid forties.Now, it's not that I dislike children (quite the opposite actually! However, bad-a$$ kids and crazy baby-daddies, now that's a different story Oh and moms who're ready to ditch their kid(s) at a moment's notice just to be with a dude...that's a "no-no" in my book...she's not a keeper.) What I DON'T like is the drama that inevitably ensues when dealing with the child's mother. The big dilemma for me is single women with kid(s) who're not entirely sure if they want anymore?